Wow! You guys are awesome for standing up for me. I was first dumbfounded by Dirk's comments. They were totally inappropriate. I would never tell another human being what they should think or do.Sometimes I am naive and actually expect people to be the same way. I didn't set out to have a relagious debate. I was more dumbfounded at the timing. From the outside looking in Jeff and Melissa's life looked perfect. Now I know other wise...